Love - the eternal question Part 2

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Shashi commented on it and this is my response. It just got so long, that I ended up making a post of it.

As I had mentioned, the observations may not be accurate, but thats the way Sudhish looks at it and I agree, with at least the majority of his reflections.

I can't see how ego will determine the will. When you resolve to do something, you do it - that is will. Of course, I do admit that despite your strong will things could go wrong and Ego can play a part in it.

Physics has a brilliant explanation for this (Three Cheers to Physicists, who believe that all universe is controlled by the Laws of Physics).

Marriage is like a body with multiple forces (all vectors) and moments acting on it. Will is a positive force, Ego is a negative force. You do not say Will is caused by Ego or Ego by Will. They are both forces, though with different direction vectors.

If ego is stronger than will (of higher magnitude), the resultant vector moves the body in the -ve dir. As simple as that. But remember the number of forces (parameters) are umpteen. And all the forces have an effect on the outcome, positive or negative. The outcome is decided by the overall effect, say (Sum of all Positive forces - Sum of all Negative forces). And most forces are not entirely positive or entirely negative. So, you have to take Cos and Sine of the force in the +&- directions.

Analyse this situation or any for that matter, and you would conclude that every cause has an effect and every effect should have a cause.

Hence proved.